Last time I saw my dad he cursed at my bro!?

Your father is your father, no matter what he's done. Denying that in any way can only hurt you more than him. But I would be sure, if I were you, to insist that you AND your brother visit him on Xmas. If he doesn't like that or doesn't agree to that, then you must consider your brothers feelings. And if I were you, I would spend the time with your mom and your brother. good Luck. 4 days ago Thanks…and my bro does not want to go see him.