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Me and my ex recently got back together we were broken up since september and we lost our baby in a car accident and then we tried to remain friends and now were back together. And we recently slept. Together unprotected and he came in me but afterwards he held in me for like 5 mins before actually pulling out but also he’s been talking about having another baby what does this mean…also I’m 17 and he’s 19

Sorry about your lost.Sounds like he wants you to have another baby to me.

It means he wants you only for your body and to accommodate him in his sexual desires.He wanted his sperm to mate with your eggs for sure and none to escape from your vagina.Wake up girl.Do you want another child at 17/18. You must care for it for 18 yrs.

it means he got you pregnant?

It means you’re probably pregnant again.

You need to ask him! How are we supposed to know what he was intending with that? You should definitely see about getting a pregnancy test.

Last Thursday I started spotting then Friday, my water broke and I had a miscarriage at four months. The baby had to be taken out thru a painful procedure and ever since then, my period blood has been bright red. I’m still bleeding today, how long will I bleed, and is it ok that it’s bright red?

I am so sorry.Miscarriages are one of hardest thing things women have to go through.You should have bleeding for about two weeks.Any more than that and you need to see a doctor.I know that it probably won’t help, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.God bless you and your family.

Ive only been on loestrin24fe about 2 1/2 weeks. everyday i take it i cry and cry and cryyyyy for ever and im so tired of being depressed all the time, i feel tired and want to sleep all day and im not motivated to do anything! it cleared my skin up the first week but now im breaking out a little more then usual. and at night i get nausea. I feel bloated sometimes but overall i feel like i lost some weight. (im always in the mood too but with this ill still be in the mood but instead of being a water fall down there its getting less and less wet idk what to do )

idk what to do, im not having the worse side effects but im losing my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

i need options plz! i know i can just switch bc but im afraid to gain weight. how is mirena?

your hormone levels are adjusting to the pills- have you talked to your doctor yet?

you may need to wait a bit longer to see if your body adjusts

People may think I’m crazy for what I’m about to say.
My symptoms have been freezing cold(shivering), stomach pain, sometimes I have diarrhea and other times I’m constipated, dizzy, lighteded, fatigued, And I cant eat much food cause I feel sick If I do. Also ive been nausous all day.
But back to the cold part. In my house I wear a Lon sleeve shirt, bulky hoodie, my dads sweatshirt, and his polo jacket, jeans, 2 pairs of socks, slippers, I have 2 big blankets on me, a scarf, and I’m sitting next to a fireplace yet I’m still shivering cold. I just can’t seem to be at a warm enough temperature to keep me warm.
What’s wrong with me?
Please help!!!
Thanks.(:
Oh and I’m a 15 year old female.

High Blood Pressure, Low Blood Pressure, Not eating enough calories per day for the body, Ranauds or its Raunards, Being anorexic, underweight.

ok so i had sex with my bf for the first time im a virgin well i was at the time. After the first 2 times he got it in all the way. it didnt hurt that bad and i never bleed i dont know why i didnt though? how come? Now we tryed having sex 2 more times but he cant get it in all the way i dont know why it seems to hurt more now to. whats going on???

your hymen may have been broken so you would not have bled.
you may have been more relaxed or had more lubrication the first 2 times you had sex.

I know I’ve asked this before but I’m still scared.

My last period was January 5-10. Today is February 14th, so it’s been over a month…I am a virgin, but I was fingered the day after my period. I’m 99% sure there was nothing on his finger, so I really, honestly don’t think I could be pregnant. But still. I’m 16 and I’ve had my period for almost 4 years now.

Does stress really cause you not to get your period, because my alcoholic mom relapsed and my mom and dad are fighting and getting a divorce and Idk if that would be why. :/

You are most likely stressed hun! Relax, even if there was anything on his finger, he would’ve had to push his finger a fair way up, so that the sperm could reach your egg (it can’t swim by itself without ***) so thats very hard to push it up there. So you can relax about that
Secondly, if you feel guilty or some emotion towards your parents divorce, it’s not your fault, I guess I can’t promise that as I know nothing about you, but don’t worry about it. Your period is most likely late because you’re so stressed. If you need any extra help then don’t hesitate to email me. eleanorcambrook89@hotmail.com because I am too 16 years old, I have over exaggerated "thinking I was pregnant" once before even though we were so safe. But I tried to relax and my period came so yea sorry about the long message and you can email me anytime you like x x x

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You should really ask your doctor.

My clit is extra sensitive and a little itchy, also it feels kind of raw. My discharge seems pretty normal and the inside isn’t itching so I don’t know what it could be. Any ideas?

If your discharge seems normal its probably not an infection. Its likely that something you’re using is causing irritation (tight clothing, sprays, soaps etc). You can get creams that are designed to relieve this sort of itching and soreness such as vagisil.

Hope I helped xx

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Ever since I started puberty my breasts have been hurting a lot and really sensitive. I haven’t started wearing a bra and I don’t know if I should because my chest is not really developed yet. But why is it so sensitive? It isn’t hurting right now but if you were to punch me in the chest it would hurt quite a bit. Is this normal?

yes it is called growing up. a lot of girls have this problem. and getting punched hurts really bad. no matter what

This happened to me too when I was younger, exactly as you.It is normal I’ve consulted a nurse.It just means that you are starting puberty and your breast will soon start to develop .You don’t need to wear a bra like you said, and there’s really nothing you can do but be careful not to get hurt there.Don’t worry it doesn’t last forever, wait for a while.

Yes that’s normal! It’s just because your breasts are growing. Sometimes wearing a bra can help, but other times it makes it more sore. I’d suggest get a training t’s, and see d it makes you feel better. If you haven’t gotten your period yet, you’ll notice around your period, your breasts will hurt then too. Which is also completely normal. You have nothing to worry about, you’re just growing up

Well, yes it’s normal to have a sensitive chest when you hit puberty. . . But, I’m pretty sure it doesn’t matter your age or sex; if someone punches your chest it’s going to hurt.

PERFECTLY NORMAL..mines still hurt (been 10 yrs)every once in a while before my period.Yes you should start wearing bras.I didn’t when they first grew in but if you are wondering if supporting them with bras help the answer is a no.

I suggest wearing a sports bra, it makes it hurt less and they’re good if you dont have a lot there. Yeah its normal, it just means theyre starting ti fill in

Its normal. My chest hurt when i started getting breast buds. Its because your just beginning to grow. It happens to everyone.

Its totally normal, and you should wear a bra when you feel your ready. But don’t worry, puberty may not be nice but it’s all natural and nothing to worry about!

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It hurts because of the production of breast tissue. You are fine.

i use always regular and it feels like im wearig a diaper! i heard always infinity was good is this true? i use both tampons and pads so reccomend one of each pls:)

I love Infinity. Regular Always is too much plastic, which holds in heat and moisture. They chapped me when I used them in the mid 90′s. I use the overnight with wings. They really pull moisture to the bottom of the pad. I feel so dry when wearing one.

I loved Gentle Glide when I wore tampons. They were thin, went in easy and I didn’t leak.

There are also cups. Instead Softcup sits at your cervix, unlike a regular cup that sits at the opening. They are made from medical grade plastic and can be left in for up to 12 hours, unlike tampons. Also, they can be put in before your period starts. So if you think you may go on it, slip one in and your protected. They are like a tampon in size, when pinched and inserted. Unlike regular cups that have to folded in various ways which have a learning curve.They come in disposable and reusable. http://www.softcup.com/

"Plus, Safety is important when it comes to your reproductive health. Instead Softcup has been cleared by the FDA and has been on the market for more than 10 years. Both reusable and disposable Softcups are made entirely of hypoallergenic, non-toxic, latex-free, non-irritating material.

Unlike tampons, Softcup doesn’t have:

• Bleached cotton

• Pesticides

• Residual fibers (left in vagina)

• Dioxins

• Carcinogens

• Latex

• Polycarbonates (PCB)

• Bisphenol-A (BPA)

• Polyvinylchloride (PVC)

• Phthalates"

I like to wear tampons preferably just because i feel more safe in them and less chance of leakage. I use U by Kotex and i like them because they have an easy applicator and they are easy for me to use! I know that they don’t work for everybody because i was talking to my friend and she said "SHe just couldn’t get them in" hahah
I hope that helped I haven’t tried the infinity pads yet but i would like to!

Ok here is what i use:
~always infinity
~U by kotex pads
~U by kotex Click tampons
Here is what my sister uses:
~tampax pearl
~tampax pearl compak

Maxi Pads all the time. Especially wear the night ones all the time to make sure there is absolutely NO leakage! Perfect for me!

I like the Kotex tanpons and the infinity pads are a lot better then most others, it’s more comfortable

Yess ! The always infinity ones are sooo thin & comfy & collect almost everything!!!!
Tampons; tampax pearl!

You might want to try a mental cup. It’s like a tampon but it’s a cup.Works great.

Monkey & doggy style

In intercourse it is your happiness but not sleep.
It is your mutual wish to have foreplay
and the common position is missionary.

it depends on the girl.
how much intimacy do u have with her.
choose the style which suits both of you

Missionary is best to sleep with girls

Missionary…and then when she falls asleep poop on her chest!

I did in 69 position and it felt very nice….
so it is the best

Doggy style?

up and down

I’ve got a small spot on my labia. It’s slightly sensitive but not painful. No head on it. Just a raised hard lump.

My first partner and I were fully STI checked (with negative results). And we were both virgins.
- I’m not sure if anything would have been picked up if it were there in the blood samples?

I’ve just started dating my second, who was a virgin before me, and we’ve used condoms, and always been protected.

Is it possible just to get acne? I do usually shave, but theres no hair there, so its never shaved.
Also I’m on my period.

Anyone shine any light on it?

Shaving causes ingrown hairs which causes pimples. Stop shaving and you will never have to deal with this again.

Just had one too. I was annoying just because of the spot it was in when I wore jeans, but otherwise that was it. Usually an ingrown hair can form into a cyst under the skin. A nice hot washcloth when you are in the shower will help. Mine took a little over a week to go away. If it is in a high-friction area you might want to avoid sex for a week just so you don’t irritate it even more.

I know, I kinda freaked out too LOL – you just don’t mess around with weird stuff in that region!

But if the skin is not broken and it’s obviously not an oozing sore and its on the outer part – it’s just a follicle having a malfunction. Don’t worry!

I have a question its about the Period or •…
Well, I haven’t started my period yet. And well…like I had a small amount of blood come out my stuff or bottom and I asked my friend if it was a large amount or small amount the 1st time you get it. She said it was a large amount but I had a small amount. I am super scared If there is something wrong or something to happen and…then is it different amount of blood for everyone? Also I read a article about period to see if It was starting or not. And It was one of the signs…should I tell my mom?

i guess ur period will start soon anyway read this article and hope it will help u

Everyone is different so this is prob ur period every girl is diff so if ur bleeding tomm its ur period

It’s ok!! When i started my period it wasnt a HUGE amount, its different for everyone.

Yea tell ur mom….u started ur period!!!! Dnt b scared…..everyone gets them!!!!

yes tell your mom… but like i sayd before.. its okay its just the start of your period

I’m 17. Ok so I haven’t actually engaged in penetrative sex.
Around day 14 of my cycle, my bf fingered me, I don’t THINK he masturbated beforehand, definitely not an hour before as I was with him! I gave him a bj. He didnt *** at all that day.
The next day around lunch I gave him a handjob, he did ***, went about my day as usual, fingered myself at night.

No condom was used.

It’s been a week since my period should have arrived, I would say my periods are quite regular, I get watery white discharge, more acne than usual,right now I have a light stomach cramp (though I haven’t had one before), no nausea, no vomiting, no tender breasts…

I’m soooooo scared that I may be pregnant? Like, terrified? I’m going off to do medicine at imperial in october (hopefully), my parents would disown me if I was pregnant and I am in nooo way ready for a baby right now!

Please please tell me what to do, what are the chances of me being prenant, how I would get an abortion (am sooo against it but I would have no choice) without my parents finding out?

Has this ever happened to you? Omgggg please someone help!

"We didn’t engage in penetrative sex."

You just answered your own question.

A penis needs to go directly inside of your vagina in order for pregnancy to occur.Even if you touched him then touched yourself later, it still wouldn’t result in pregnancy.Sperm dies on contact with air.

I see absolutely no penis/ vagina contact here.

You’re late for other reasons.

you migh tbe pregnant and you dont seem scared of the "pre ***" you might get the other side effects later take a pregnancy test now they sell them at the 99 cent stores even…better to find out now then later…and if you are…look up the "vitamin c abortion" consists of taking a vitamin c pill every hour of the day even at night 24/7 until you get your period,,,if it doesnt work…call planned parenthood for an appt.!

You can’t be pregnant. Sperm cant survive very long once it hits oxygen.

Every time I eat something it always comes back up. Sometimes right after I eat or sometimes an hour or two after I eat. It started sometime last month. I can’t be pregnant because we used protection, I still have my period, and I feel perfectly fine. Does this happen to a lot of people or am I just weird? Is this some type of medical condition? Why do I vomit every time I eat something? My boyfriend has been wanting to take me out to eat but I won’t let him because of this. He doesn’t know why though, I just always tell him I’m not hungry.

Sometimes eating problems like this could be anxiety related. If you have an anxiety toward yourself your physical appearence of the calorific content of food this could contribute. It could also have something to do with stress? If it is stress/anxiety based the answer will not be obvious and you may need to look a bit deeper into it, I hope you get this problem sorted soon

I’m a 20 year old guy, and I don’t have much time so I’ll cut to the chase..I made fun of you ladies and lost on a wager with my aunt..The punishment I agreed to before I loss was that I would dress up as a ballerina and go door to door to all women in my neighboor hood and apologize..Well as I type this I am sitting at my aunts house in my losing outfit(pink fuzzy tiara, pink leotard with short poofy sleeves, light pink tights, little pink tutu, and 6" pointy toe pumps)…Now is where you ladies come in. As a part of my loss I must go door to door in my outfit and apologize to all women…So….My aunt is letting you ladies pick how I must apologize and also you get to choose what to make me do for the women for their own personal amusement and entertainment..So how should I apologize to each women and what should they make me do for them as I go door to door??? So please help out and again I apologize to you ladies thank you

HAHA! U dont mess w/ women! Now go out and be a jerk!

well just appologize from the heart and for what you did and ask them what you want to do for entertainment.

Sing something and what not.

Bend over and let them peg you. Have fun!

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Im having vagina problems lol im 14 an I started shaving down there when I was like 12 or 13 idk. But I have razor bumps an dark spots on my bikini line. How do I get rid of it before the summer? Its so ugly an embarassing. My mom won’t let me go get it waxed tho which is pissing me off because I know getting it waxed will be better. Also my vagina has a smell to it. I’m a very clean person, I shower twice a day, I use two different rags ( one for face the other for down there ) an I clean myself really good but for some reason this smell wont go away. I kinda sweat down there so I’m guessing thats why it smells. But I really need to get rid of it plzz help me , i’ m begging for anyone to help me.

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All pretty normal hun,

First of all i shave downstairs too as i cannot stand the pain of waxing lol, I always use a cream called sudacrem on the area as this totally prevents the rashes (I actually think people use it for nappy rashes) anyways it does the trick!! – Try it!

Regarding the smell sometimes the products you use to wash yourself can cause a funny smell, Try using some products like the simple range which dont have added perfume in it, Also i would switch to a sponge or just using your hands to clean as i think clothes/rags can hold bacteria for a while!

Hope that helps xx

I know you said ladies only but I’m a guy and I prefer women have pubic hair.Its a normal sign of maturity.If you think its too much, just trim it with scissors!

As for the smell, every woman has a scent, again its totally normal and not gross to guys.However if its a strong fishy smell it could mean you have an infection.

First of all, It’s normal, seconds of all dont get it waxed it KIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIILLLSSS you will not be able to bear the pain. Use doedrant(roll on) on your vagina to get rid of the spots of them, and the dark skin, you can get bleaching or lightning cream:)

You can use a deodorant for the spots and for the smell or just use a soap twice a day to wash your vagina so it doesn’t smell lol its normal to have razor bumps try buying aftershave and shaving with aftershave it should get rid of the bumps Good luck xx im 15 i know what you are going through by the way don’t try waxing you ll be crying in pain after wards it will hurt… specially down there :S ouch !

Its normal lol . Believe it or not.. all vaginas have a smell too it. However if the smell is fishy, you need to see a doctor because u probably have an infection. For the razor bumps. Stop shaving for a while. You probably have dark spots on ur bikini line from wearing panties all the time an probably tight panties at that, my advice is to not wear panties when ur sleep to let ur vagina breath a little. For the time being, put some cocoa butter down there, an try using a different soap

Yea we got a lot in common already Im 14 too and started shaving when I was 12 after I took that embarrasing trip to the docter I was hairy and it was embarrasingl but now I shave often I make sure I use whitch hazel, it is a good after shave, so It is very useful, then this one time I had this purple-ish brown bump and it hurt so bad esspecially because it was at my bikini line and that’s where my underwear band rest on and it hurts even more, I later found out it was an ingrown hair and that they go away on their own, It actually didn’t I had to gat a tweezer and pluck out the hair that is covered in my skin if you google "what causes an ingrown hair you’ll get what Im sayin" then after the ingrown hair is gone, it leaves scars! and I was embarrased to wear bikini’s anymore, I would try to wear 1 peice which doesn’t compliment my flat tummy. So it was hard I am hairy too and I asked my mom for a wax and she said no Im way too young.

And as for the sweating just use feminine wipes or buy this vaginal wash that say’s summers eve "dont worry it doesn’t say vaginal wash in big bold letters so that everyone know that you have an odor. But you can tell it’s for the vagina by the context clues in the back.

You can get wipes or baby wipes.
I had a smelly odor I would be embarrased to give my mom my underwear to wash because of the smell but th wash really helped me and I hope it helps you .

~Good luck. P.s Im top contributor so many people usually pick my answers as " Best Answer:" wink wink

Ok so I have my period and I’m trying to shorten the days and a lot of pple said to douche my vagina with vinegar and water? How do I do that? Do I insert the vinegar into my vagina or just wash my vagina with vinegar. Helppp

You can’t shorten your period.The bleeding comes from inside the uterus, and will not stop until the uterus lining has been shed completely.You are just going to have to wait it out.If you go on an oral contraceptive, you can run several packets together and not have a period for several months.Talk to your doctor about this, or go see a sexual health clinic.

Vinegar douching may potentially be of assistance when a woman has BV, to increase the pH of the vagina, but must be done with care, due to risk of injury, chemical burns and accidental introduction of air which can lead to an embolism.

Actually, you can buy douches that contain a mixture of vinegar and water. They will be much easier to use than anything you can come up with.But if you do decide to do your own thing, make there isn’t too much vinegar in the mix.

im having like so much vaginal discharge, im due on my period in a few days but it is always like this, one day it will be cleary and sort of runny and stringy, the next day white and stringy, and now its a sort of mucus?
i am a virgin and it isnt possible for me to have a STD. anyone have any suggestions?

That is totally normal, all you can do is use panty liners to protect your clothing.

Your most welcome.

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